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Monday, January 23, 2012

New Year With A New Life

Yeah, it is as how the title says so. I am in a relationship with an older guy for my first time and this is the time that I really feel so right. Nothing is wrong with him and me as both of us wanting the same thing. I remember the first pick up line from him " Do you want some booze? " and I said " No " as I don't drink, haha and from that time we clicked and hang out and here we are in a very damn well good relationship. I don't think we are fast as when things are so right that everything is hinting on you to go on, there is no absolute reason to say no, unless your are a dum dum (LOL). I mean how often do you find someone that kind, good, understanding, and most importantly wants the same thing as you? This time I really do have to thank the Goddess of Love or everyone who unintentionally introduce him to me~~ Anyway I am glad everything is working out for both of us and wishes the best for us and any new couples out there. Happy new year with your new ones ~~

PS: Will be going to Bangkok with him in 2 days time, can't wait ~~

Monday, December 12, 2011

Opinions Please

Ok, this is the first time ever I think I going to request some love advice. Even though I had been into few relationships, but that doesn't make me professional or love god advisor and instead, I think I need more guidance. Being in a relationship is totally challenging for me in the way that how each of us handle the pressure and acknowledgement of family about your bf if you are open, how both of you communicate among each other to get know better, how you try to understand him if he is hurt, sad, emotional, or whatever more thingy emitted from him, how you want to make him understand that he is the only one special in your heart and many more (lazy want to list out all). I know being in a relationship is never an easy task and that is why, I always take it serious when it comes to love. But how do we know that our partner feels and think the same way? In my opinion, no matter how god damn freaking super duper close a couple are, we will never know each another mind and thinking. You can't tell for sure or understand how he really feels isn't it? We are not god, we can't hear how you feel, how you think, how you see us even though you magically said ' I LOVE YOU' or ' I AM FINE'. Understanding your partner would be the hardest part as most of the gay guys out there surely experienced bad times and even getting hurt over and over again. So how do you try to understand your partner and make sure that he understand you as well? By time? How long would that be? If time is not on your side then what are the other options? How do I tell when you are telling the truth or saying out how you feel? And after understanding, how well do you maintain your side with him? Who are we to say that he will do the same with us? We can't hear or know what he is thinking. Maybe he wanted a way out but feel that we still have a value of a replacement bf or even worse. And then in the end, everyone will be in pain physically, mentally, emotionally, spiritually or anything else. I know out there, everyone surely had a word to say about this and how to handle this matter in a good manner as a win win situation. I would really love to hear any opinions that can help me in the future and of course other readers as well. God bless us.

Saturday, November 26, 2011

Should I Not?

Since I been staying at home after my breakup, my family member are surprised that I always got home after work and know something was amiss and so they decided or planned it during dinner to have an interrogation with me ( Damm LOL)

Father : How was your job? Is it good?

Me : Yes, everything was fine. (Continue munching my food without looking at him)

Father : You sure? Hmm then why nowadays you never go out and meet your friend? Last time before you started working, you always go out and never come back home.

Me : Well, I want to focus on my job and earn money first ma (Have to lie about the breakup)

Mum : Goodla stay at home, no need waste money go out. Save money and give us

Sister : Haiya let him deal with his own life la, he go out also not doing anything bad

Mum : If he go out gaying around how? *Talk to me*, You don't go play backside a I tell you

Me : (I was like WTF in my heart already). I did not go play backside laaaaa. You want me play so much is it ?

Father : Goodla if never play, I thought you break up with the Mr XXX (my father really can read me bugger )

Me : Fuyoh, if I break up also, your should be happy right? I can find a girl lo now

Mum : Really? Ok ok let me set you up again *Smilling like kena lottery*

Me : The heck, stop doing that please. Besides I been going out with Joey already for few times. So don't disturb me

Mum : Joey? Good good, I know both of you are still lovingly like how you two used to be when kids.

Sis : That was when they are kids, now big already , don't disturb them

Me : Yala, I know what I am doing. Just don't talk about this thing next time during dinner

Father : * Gives me the suspicious look but continue eating*

Basically, my mum trying to set me up again and again and I am sure my dad knows that I broke up. He is my dad after all and he always guess me correctly. Feel torn between two sides now when mum so happily thinking something going to happen between Joey and me and more importantly I hope she doesn't get the wrong idea when I keep going out with her.

Friday, November 18, 2011

Up and Down

I have no idea whats going on with every couple out there as most of the people I knew were breaking up. First it was me, then my own close friend, then his friend, then my fellow blogger friends, my god what has happen? Anyway what is done is done and there is no point of looking back as it was the past and no matter how we tried to walk back, its impossible. So I moved forward like TULS(LOL) and I got back into this gay circle but I sensed that the gay guys who approached me were damn disgusting. They talked about sex, dick size (LMAO), and whatever god knows what kind of sex position and still dared to asked me out. I totally turned off when a guy come over and start talking about sex before even know you. The hell with how handsome or so called adonis you are as once you opened your mouth, I saw shits coming out (omg i so mean). After getting back into the reality of gay circle and singlehood, I tried to accept any guys just as friends (I am not as pro as TULS, lol) but the attitude really is sickening. It really make me wonder, is true love still exist for even gay guys? I know the answer but still what I saw so far really pushed back every positive thinking that I am trying to tell myself that happiness and love is still out there. How can I be still thinking there are good guys or sweet guy out there when all I meet are jerks ? (LoL) Anyway really got to keep up my positive thinking, if not I think I am gonna be lost forever LOL ~~

Tuesday, November 8, 2011

So Hard Yet

It's been a week since I am back to my single life and no words can describe my feelings right now. Upset and disappointment still all over me but yet I am glad that my workplace been keeping me busy to keep thinking of nonsense and whatever bullshit that my brain producing. I still keep your photo with me, unwilling to throw it away as it was the last thing I had about you even though all of my buddies call me to get rid of you. Still if I am not belong to you, no way for me to force through it doesn't it? So my single life been good as my friends been busy keeping me busy (LOL) as they worried I might drown into depression mode~~ ( I am not that crazy, my beloved friends) and be the another Joan of Arc statue. I am really fine and keeping going in my life as I believe no matter how hard now it be, the right one always there regardless straight or gay ( I am crapping already). So for now, just work work work and earn a lot of money money money ~~

P.S : Anyone want to go watch Immortals with me? Come come accompany me :D

Thursday, November 3, 2011

New Start

Ok, so first of all i am regret to say that everything is over and a new chapter of my life has begun. Well my relationship ended and lasted for a year plus, longer than I had anticipated but the outcome was much predicted. I won't put the blame on him as both of us had the responsibility of this outcome and of course, I am upset that this relationship had to come to an end. Many sweet and bitter experiences we had shared together yet we had no fate to be ever lasting. Maybe its my fault for being too happy go lucky and not to your liking or can't be who you ever wanted to be. I am sorry that I can't change myself just to please you as I am no longer myself if I ever do that. Maybe I wanted your attention too much that I annoyed you and you hated me for that. But whatever it is, I never stop loving you and be there for you every time you need me. Anyway all of this had over and you had your own new life, so am I. I really wish you all the best in your undertaking in everything, life, love and hopefully, someone better than me can please you in the way you wanted to. For myself, I think a halt had to come in my love life and rethink about soulmate and the perfect one. I been into few relationship but still all come to an end. So the best would be stop dating for now until the one comes by again LOL ~~

And about me, I just started my work at an engineering company working as an engineer which I hated so much~~ I do not had much chances yet in the Science and Biotechnology sector, so got to wait for a little longer until the best opportunity come. Who have any job can intro to me :P? So right now I will just focus on my work, earn money and if love ever cross by, maybe I will reconsider to reopen back my door if he is the one~~ So that all from me for now, as I am still mentally tired in everything I do now.

Wednesday, September 7, 2011

Walk, Walk, Walk

Last weekend I went to Pavillion with my sister to buy present for her husband upcoming birthday and we drove there and parked at Lot 10. So as we had to walked towards Pavillion, we had to cross the traffic lights and joined the crowd which I hated so much. Anyhow this story is about how people or rather sales people, can change their attitude so fast. My sister was carrying her Burberry bag and my dressing was a bit classy that day too ( going to gay place ma) and the first stop we made was Coach. We wasn't attended and no sales man or women bother us and my sister fed up and change shop. Then we went to Gucci and found 1 beautiful wallet but decided to continue survey for any nice wallets around there. As usual sales people in Gucci also don't bother and just do their own thing. We proceed to Burberry and the treatment was same and my sister don't want to give a damm anymore and just say 'Choose one wallet and go Sephora later'. So we went back Gucci for second time and Burberry as well to choose between these 2 outlets and at last, welcome Burberry~~ So then, this is the best part. My sister decided to go in Parkson to buy wrapping paper and while walking, I noticed people were staring at my sister handbag and the newly bought small bag in her other hand too. All the sales girls were like going insane, approaching my sister like bugs and pestering her to try out makeup and stuff but she just don't give a damm. Before we moved to Sephora, we went again to Gucci and Coach, and this time the treatment was different. I saw from far they scanned us and opened the door for us, welcoming us, treating us and giving the hopeful look that my sister would buy something from them ( who called her to have Burberry's item on her; dai sei ~~). The treatment was totally different and it's as if we are king and queens where only the rich being treated like royalties while the poor ones, you die your problem LOL. Well we don't bother much as we already foresee this and deep down, I feel humans really can be hypocrite. I know they are doing so in order to get their job done so on, but shouldn't the sales people treat everyone fairly? So mean to treat people just by their status and I think it's really so bad. Anyway we end our day by spending at Sephora nearly RM1k lol

P.S : Got 1 gay couple buying Gucci wallet too when we were there.